5 Important Things We All Get To Learn From Breakups

A breakup is not the end of the end of the
world, no matter how grim it initially. For
some rare, lucky people, they fall in love
with only one person ever.
By some unlikely conspiracy of nature,
they stay through the years with that one
person and their relationship withstands
all the tests of time, till death does them
part.For many, however, it is most likely
that before they finally find ‘the one,’
they would have been through a number
of relationships that were not really what
they thought they were getting into.
What results from these instances are
heartbreak, sadness, and other negative
emotions that many people would rather
not go through.
However, experience, they say, is the
best teacher, and people get to learn not
only from their pleasant memories, but
also from the unpleasant ones.
As a matter of fact, there are always
more lessons to learn from unpleasant
situations than from pleasant ones.
What lessons, therefore, does heartbreak
teach people that have gone through it
before?
1. Never let people decide what is good for
you and what is not.
Your friends should not be the ones
telling you that you need to break with
your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Everyone deserves to make their own
choices and though your friends might
be concerned for you, the ultimate
decision to pull the plug on the
relationship lies with you, and you alone.
2. The heart can take more pain than you
know
The pain that comes from a very bad,
undeserved, and unpredicted breakup is
a very intense one.
No one deserves such sadness, really.
The truth, though, is that when such
thing occurs, one might be moved into
thinking that that is the end of the world,
but it is not.
The heart mends after a while. It might
feel so unbearable at first, but with the
right moves, you’ll be fine in the end.
3. You will learn that it is better to let go
than to keep forcing an affair with someone
who is clearly not right for you.
Many get to learn this the hard way
4. You will learn that most people don’t
deserve a second chance. There was a
reason it didn’t work the first time,
right?
5. You can’t change someone’s mind if they
don’t want a relationship.
The main thing is for you to learn from
these mistakes as you let yourself feel the
warmth of love once again.
Once bitten twice shy. You should not be
falling into the same mistake twice,
right?

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